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I wonder how much the problem is that "they degrade the experience" vs. men having weird psychological/egotistical issues. I feel like most of the common talk o

by gtf21 12y ago

I wonder how much the problem is that "they degrade the experience" vs. men having weird psychological/egotistical issues. I feel like most of the common talk of "it feels better without condoms" is really to do with men just not wanting to use condoms for some psychosocial reason (no evidence to back this up).

teh_klev 12y ago
Um, no, condoms are (even the ultra-thin ones) are truly awful to use, so much sensitivity is lost. They also bunch up and move around in unpleasant ways. That said, if I was single again and having one night stands here and there I'd always use one without question, no matter how unpleasant I think they are. Health and fear of paying for an unwanted child outstrip any notional "weird psychological/egotistical issues".
- gtf21 12y ago
  > Um, no, condoms are (even the ultra-thin ones) are truly awful to use I'm afraid I just disagree, but I don't think there can be a productive discussion on this. > That said, if I was single again and having one night stands here and there I'd always use one without question, no matter how unpleasant I think they are. Health and fear of paying for an unwanted child outstrip any notional "weird psychological/egotistical issues". Yes, but apparently not everyone is that rational, hence the problem.