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You go to a new place and start doing things differently. You discover better ways to do things and realize people back home don't understand what they're doing
by heliodor 12y ago
You go to a new place and start doing things differently. You discover better ways to do things and realize people back home don't understand what they're doing.
For example, in New York City, it seems the main activity for young people is to go out to bars and restaurants.
You pack your bags and head somewhere tropical. You pick up a water sport like surfing or kiteboarding. You start waking up at 6am with the sunrise and realize it's amazing. Back in NYC, your awake hours were more like 10am to 2am. You start cooking at home.
Now, you look back at your friends and view them as wasting their life in bars and restaurants. You start identifying with the older crowd who comes to the office at 6am or 8am instead of 11am. You also start wondering why your friends don't ever do anything outdoors.
When you move, you end up with new habits. Your brain has a need to feel correct, so it views any changes as improvements; therefore, the ways of before (and of your friends) are now considered wrong, otherwise your mind experiences dissonance. You'll find a way to justify things to stop the dissonance.
- amag 12y agoYeah, I think the last paragraph probably nails it down quite well.