My "succes" started when I stopped hunting for it, stopped looking for it and started living. After a while of just being (I made a promise to myself that I wo

My "succes" started when I stopped hunting for it, stopped looking for it and started living. After a while of just being (I made a promise to myself that I would do nothing but earn enough to support my family for 12 months) I started connecting with likeminded (especially the microconf crowd) Having two mastermind groups, a conference every six months and some friends who are interested in living instead of making a shitload of money (internal vs. external motivation) helped me move myself and my business to something sustainable and wholehearted. PS. I took 13 years from me starting as self employed until I became "succesfull" - and that is 13 years of failure and little money - all because I was so externally motivated.