Very similar story here. It had been suggested that I see someone regarding ADHD when I was younger but my dad didn't really "believe" it existed. Nothing tha

Very similar story here. It had been suggested that I see someone regarding ADHD when I was younger but my dad didn't really "believe" it existed. Nothing that couldn't be fixed with old fashioned grit and character building. Dropped out of college after losing almost all motivation to go to class or constantly forgetting things I had to do. This just started a cycle of self loathing and depression and feeling like a worthless fuckup. Eventually landed a low paying job despite not having my degree and with the help of my SO, got through the long waiting period and other hurdles to see a doctor. Got treatment, went back to school and finished my degree with nothing lower than a B in any class. Not making nearly what you are but where I live at least, the difference between $20k/yr and $60k/yr (especially as one half of a pair of "DINKs") is massive. Medication to tweak the dopamine response curve isn't perfect but I have it to thank for at least enabling me to do the normal hard work of making it in life.