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In my experience, if there is something that is troubling or upsetting for me, I can tend to engage in distracting activities or thoughts so I don't have to thi

eivarv 11y ago
In my experience, if there is something that is troubling or upsetting for me, I can tend to engage in distracting activities or thoughts so I don't have to think about it. This seems like a less extreme version of becoming emotionally numb in response to very negative feelings. It might seem like that to you, but the two don't seem that similar to me. Differences include the fact that you may be able to will your way out of your (somewhat healthy) distraction - or think clearly about it, care about it, or register it happening at all - while this is largely not the case regarding emotional numbness (pathology). I think this gets to the core of our disagreement. You are implying that people without mental illness experience life in a way that is simple and intuitive. If you are unhappy, do more exercise. If you have a "seemingly" good life then you won't want to commit suicide. I don't think that's what he's implying at all. Rather, I think he is implying that those that have not had to struggle with depression has another perspective entirely, and thus have a very hard time intuiting what dealing with mental illness is like. That's why you get that kind of simplistic "solutions": those that suggest them usually have no experience with or knowledge of the pathology in question, and are basically thinking of how they would attempt to remedy the situation (unknowingly basing their whole plan on how a healthy mind works). There is a lot of discussion on introversion on HN, and one interesting post I read was saying how the advice to "put yourself out there" was not good because shallow interactions with other people could be just as unsatisfying a no interactions. The advice was to find ways to connect with people at a deeper level. Apropos of introversion; there seems to be a great deal of confusion surrounding the term, particularly in relation to insecurity and social anxiety (as with terms that have their meaning muddied by colloquial misuse.) Similarly "do more exercise" might be simplistic and bad advice for many people, not just the severely depressed. And people with seemingly great lives might commit suicide because they are deeply unhappy or dissatisfied about their lives. Do you honestly think that just because a person has the appearance of a great life, that they must be happy? Again, lolo_ is talking about why "do more exercise" is bad advice in the context of attempting to cure the perceived "sadness" of an individual suffering with depression. Healthy subjects, on the other hand, will generally see a rise in mood (short term). Depressed subjects will subsequently return to their baseline of "shitty" - if they ever experience an effect in mood at all. And regarding people with seemingly great lives committing suicide: Most of these would likely be diagnosed with some sort of psychopathology (although suicide itself might be debatable on a more philosophical level.)

eivarv 11y ago

In my experience, if there is something that is troubling or upsetting for me, I can tend to engage in distracting activities or thoughts so I don't have to think about it. This seems like a less extreme version of becoming emotionally numb in response to very negative feelings. It might seem like that to you, but the two don't seem that similar to me. Differences include the fact that you may be able to will your way out of your (somewhat healthy) distraction - or think clearly about it, care about it, or register it happening at all - while this is largely not the case regarding emotional numbness (pathology). I think this gets to the core of our disagreement. You are implying that people without mental illness experience life in a way that is simple and intuitive. If you are unhappy, do more exercise. If you have a "seemingly" good life then you won't want to commit suicide. I don't think that's what he's implying at all. Rather, I think he is implying that those that have not had to struggle with depression has another perspective entirely, and thus have a very hard time intuiting what dealing with mental illness is like. That's why you get that kind of simplistic "solutions": those that suggest them usually have no experience with or knowledge of the pathology in question, and are basically thinking of how they would attempt to remedy the situation (unknowingly basing their whole plan on how a healthy mind works). There is a lot of discussion on introversion on HN, and one interesting post I read was saying how the advice to "put yourself out there" was not good because shallow interactions with other people could be just as unsatisfying a no interactions. The advice was to find ways to connect with people at a deeper level. Apropos of introversion; there seems to be a great deal of confusion surrounding the term, particularly in relation to insecurity and social anxiety (as with terms that have their meaning muddied by colloquial misuse.) Similarly "do more exercise" might be simplistic and bad advice for many people, not just the severely depressed. And people with seemingly great lives might commit suicide because they are deeply unhappy or dissatisfied about their lives. Do you honestly think that just because a person has the appearance of a great life, that they must be happy? Again, lolo_ is talking about why "do more exercise" is bad advice in the context of attempting to cure the perceived "sadness" of an individual suffering with depression. Healthy subjects, on the other hand, will generally see a rise in mood (short term). Depressed subjects will subsequently return to their baseline of "shitty" - if they ever experience an effect in mood at all. And regarding people with seemingly great lives committing suicide: Most of these would likely be diagnosed with some sort of psychopathology (although suicide itself might be debatable on a more philosophical level.)