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We're so obsessed as a society on making life "easy" for our kids that we completely remove our children's ability to fend for themselves in the real world. Th
by mindfulgeek 12y ago
We're so obsessed as a society on making life "easy" for our kids that we completely remove our children's ability to fend for themselves in the real world.
These parents were doing their children a service and trying to break free from the overprotective craziness that has everyone keeping their kids inside. And the response they received is crazy. As if its not hard enough to go against the grain and give your kids more independence, now there is precedence that if you do, you may be at risk.
Our jobs as parents is not to protect kids from life, but to give them the tools to navigate it.
Part of giving them tools is giving them the opportunity to fail and learn from it.
The rates of depression, suicide, bullying and drug use have been climbing higher and higher -- we're not helping our kids stay safe, we're keeping them from gaining wisdom.
Eventually it will change, though I suspect things will get worse before they get better... change comes when the pain of staying the same is too great -- we're all too comfortable keeping our kids inside.
- monk_e_boy 12y agoIt opens your eyes travelling to other countries, different rules and different social norms. Most places have kids running wild and seem to be enjoying themselves. Obviously there is risk, but 99.99% of adults would go to a childs aid if anything happened. But there is always one overprotective person in a position of power who delights in taking away some freedom in the name of security. It's hard to argue with someone when they are making kids safer... <cue dramatic music - dun dun duuun> but at what cost.