The strange assertions aside, calling someone creepy (and meaning it) is hostile. The individual used this to mean the relationship between the two men was disgusting. Saying you think someone is disgusting, with as much intent and conviction as was applied here isn't like a joke, it's a serious opinion. I don't know how to express this. It wasn't a joke, what this user posted. If someone posted a long description of how they inanely perceived your life and your association with your colleagues and made true-looking allegations of 'creepy' non-sexual sexual relations I wonder if you wouldn't be offended and would want to clear up the misunderstanding.
> I'm not making personal attacks.
Yes, you are. You're naming persons and attacking them without the least grounds for doing so (and in a particularly puerile way). That's not ok here.
There's another problem: the over-the-top diatribes you routinely post to HN. The grandiosity of their claims is matched only by their lack of evidence. That takes the signal/noise ratio past dismal.
Everybody lapses sometimes. We don't moderate accounts for that. But bringing a megaphone to every street corner and blasting the community with apocalyptic rhetoric is incompatible with substantive, civil discussion, which is what this site is for. Worse, the content of this rhetoric seems to be imaginary. It sounds authoritative, but on a closer look, there's simply nothing backing it up.
Your technical comments are fine, as are most of your miscellaneous comments, so you obviously know how to use this site well. But these demagogic comments are, in aggregate, an abuse of HN.
When you have evidence for the claims you're making, please say what it is from now on. When you don't, then please make different claims for which you do. Factual comments are ok, of course, as are statements of personal experience.
Not to defend his recent over-the-top diatribes, but I think his recent escalation of shouting is due to him feeling wronged by HN moderation. I mean, he literally said in a comment sometime ago that the HN comment rankban only made him more obstinate in letting everyone know about his frustrations with all that's wrong with "VC-istan".
I am defending the honor of technology, of makers, of people who believe the world can be improved through positive-sum progress rather than continuing the negative-sum squabbling that often dominates human history, and that is all that is left if bad leaders are chosen. I am fighting because there is a good side and a bad side and I want the good side to win.
The decision to produce Evan Spiegel, to fund him and make his career and pull strings to make his startup succeed and give him press exposure, was a fuck-you to all the people who've spent years and decades in technology working hard and actually trying to build things worth caring about. There is a cultural war going on between the future and the past. Evan Spiegel was produced (and he is a product, not an entrepreneur) because of his rich daddy; he is a product of past, much like a tyrannosaur's forearms. But when the past blocks the future, when resources are being diverted away from progress to pay tribute to a set of entrenched players who deliver no present or future value, it's time to speak up and encourage the fight. The problem won't go extinct if we don't throw a meteor or few its way.
When people fund and support the careers of unqualified psychopaths, generating bad companies with horrible cultures, we can let it go or we can fight. One way to fight is with public ridicule. Attempting to discover peoples' motivations, when they act in bad faith, should not be out of consideration. When the suppositions are reasonable, as they were in my case, it is a valid tactic of discourse.
I never claimed with certainty that there was any specific type of relationship between these two people. I merely pointed to the most likely possibility given the information in the OP. It should be clear that I was, in fact, making a claim of suspicion (justified by what was in the OP) rather than certainty.
This war is bigger than the two of them, and it really doesn't matter what type of motivations the main actors have. It matters what people do. When people are working for the bad side, does it really matter why? Perhaps I should apologize, not because I may have been wrong (and I thought the admission of suspicion rather than certainty was clear) but because I brought forth a divisive topic that threatens to distract us from the real issues. I do not always fight perfectly, but you must admit that I do fight. The desire to defend what is good and oppose what is bad is one that I hold strongly, and I do not believe that I should be ashamed of it.
I think this quote is apt for what you describe:
Never attribute to malice that which could be equally attributed to incompetence
All that you describe is not unique to Technology or anything else. Anywhere there are power relationships there is the cronyism and nepotism that you describe. I wish I could say I am with you in this fight, but I think it's just a fundamental part of human nature - making countering it a Sisyphean task.
"as it was in the beginning is now and ever shall be, world without end. Amen."
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This absurd rhetoric is a perfect example. There's nothing of substance here, except an admission that you imagined what you said.
HN threads are for conversation, not imaginary "wars" and ideological harangues. No more of this, please.
You have lost the ability to differentiate between what you want this industry to be and what it is. Therefore, your view of it is rosy.
That said, I think we can both agree that this thread is tired.
I was in a company where half my dev team would say "Penis? Penis." all fucking day. One guy was a "Penis" automaton until I got him shut up in retaliation for watching my screen to see if I was working.
Then there was the "Hey we're a big startup! <airguitar>" startup I was in, with the "Homo?" Inquisition.
Software industry people are severely fucked up individuals. Dysfunction is the norm. All these business books are white picket fences around the most pathetic shit. (https://modelviewculture.com/news/the-eternal-and-toxic-optimism-of-startup-advice https://modelviewculture.com/news/the-eternal-and-toxic-opti...)
And it's not weird. Throughout history, people as human as we are painted rosy pictures of the creepy shit they saw from kings, CEOs, politicians... and the secular priests who serve them.
michaelochurch is a breath of fresh air; he's no more "jaded" than the businesspeople I speak with, who must take a cynical view of their equally sociopathic partners. I have no idea about how pervasive this particular relationship is that he describes; I've filed it away in the back of my mind and will revisit it if it explains anything I see. (And of course, one must be careful not to descend into homophobic condemnations.)
I didn't mean to say "jaded" in a negative way, in fact it's very much the opposite. I would have used "cynical", but I think it's quite a bit more negative, and "skeptical" isn't the correct word.
As for whether software industry is dysfunctional: most of us here on HN is working in the industry, and we're alright human being here. I'd be more careful with generalization.
And as for michaelochurch, I didn't say that he was wrong. I said that his posts were counterproductive: even if it's true, it's just too negative and getting tiresome after a while (you will notice it's the common theme in his comments, which unfortunately just garner him downvotes nowadays, regardless of the post's merit). I sincerely value his blog, back when he was more focus on the craft of programming.
I'm risking feeding the trolls here, which dang has scolded me for in another thread, but...
Everybody views the world through tinted, inaccurate lenses. Including you, michaelochurch - perhaps especially you, since your view is pretty far off the mainstream. Personally, I'm glad that you share your perspective, even though I disagree with much of it, because it's only through having a dissonance of voices that we can get to some approximation of the truth.
But what you're asking for in this thread, with the accusations about Dick Costolo and Evan Spiegel and then the claim that a moderator of the site holds a biased, rose-tinted view, is for readers to consider your view of reality as reality itself. It is not. It's a perspective on reality, an interpretation, just like everyone else's post is. It's fine to leave out the qualifiers and just assert a view as fact as a rhetorical device - I've certainly been guilty of this a lot, and PG does it all the time. But most people, when an alternate viewpoint or interpretation is presented, will at least listen, consider their points, and possibly adapt their worldview.
It doesn't advance the discourse or our understanding of the truth to say "You're just biased", because all it invites are posts that say "No, you're biased." Duh. Everybody is biased. The point of critical thinking is to take in a bunch of different viewpoints, understand everyone's biases (including our own), and then work out what's actually going on.
FWIW, that narrative you hold for SnapChat doesn't actually match up with the facts. They first floated the idea in April 2011, and launched the product in June 2011. [1] It was not funded until May 2012, with the first meeting with VCs in March 2012. At the time of funding, they had about 100,000 users and served roughly 25 images/sec [2].
Now, I'm not personally a SnapChat user/employee/investor, and I think some of the other information that has come to light about Evan Spiegel and SnapChat's business practices is pretty reprehensible. But the narrative that actually fits the facts is a much more straightforward one: a driven entrepreneur builds a product with the help of his buddies, convinces a critical mass of people to use it, gets it growing fast, and then VC piles in hoping to get a piece of the next big thing. No sinister conspiracies.
[1] http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_Snapchat http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timeline_of_Snapchat
[2] http://techcrunch.com/2012/05/12/snapchat-not-sexting/ http://techcrunch.com/2012/05/12/snapchat-not-sexting/