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"If I could talk to my 14 year old self, I wouldn't recommend any particular books. I would say, "Don't stress and worry so much about school or yo
by nosuchthing 12y ago
"If I could talk to my 14 year old self, I wouldn't
recommend any particular books.
I would say, "Don't stress and worry so much about school
or your grades, because absolutely none of that is going
to matter in 10 years. Learn how to make things. Start
now, and never stop. Learn how to use technology to the
fullest, both software and hardware. Learn how to write,
speak and communicate ideas as effectively as possible.
Learn how to hack people and understand how social
structures work. Take that seriously. Most importantly,
don't let anyone change who you are. Choose a path and
follow it doggedly."
Ironically, some of the best advice I've seen came from a
book: "Who you will be in five years is determined by who
you meet today and what you read today" [0]. But a 14
year old doesn't need to read a whole book to gain that
particular pearl of wisdom, or many of the others. I read
a lot now, several of the books mentioned on this thread
and many others. But that's because I'm old, and it's too
late
for me. If I could talk to my 14 year old self, or any
14
year old, I would tell them that there is significantly
more to life than what can be learned in a book.
[0] The Creative Habit, by Twyla Tharp "
[via] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9268981 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=9268981
- Red_Tarsius 12y agoI 100% agree. I can't believe I was so stressed out for p.e.r.f.e.c.t grades. They HAD to be perfect. The extrinsic reward destroyed the very purpose of schools: learning.