I think the recruiters second two comments were the most valid. Being late and having a run in your stockings seems to show a lack of caring and professionalism

I think the recruiters second two comments were the most valid. Being late and having a run in your stockings seems to show a lack of caring and professionalism. The comment about "looking like she was ready to go out" was, in my opinion just a poor way of saying that she was too casual. I understand that the company may have a casual dress code, but it sounds like her appearance was "unprofessional" and not "overtly sexy". I would imagine that a guy showing up in a tattered suit would have gotten a similarly poor response.