No. I'm open to potential mates who are not so lucky as long as they give me some indication of a successful marriage and will help me in a good upbringing of m

No. I'm open to potential mates who are not so lucky as long as they give me some indication of a successful marriage and will help me in a good upbringing of my offsprings. To put it bluntly, I don't want gold-diggers who value themselves only by their appearance instead of their educational/intellectual/athletic abilities && ability to maintain a stable environment. I don't care if they haven't achieved anything on paper because of lack of resources. But I need strong signals that indicate that they are more than what they look like. A good family background != (a rich family | an unseparated family | a family with resources) A good family background for me == Good morals & curious & interesting personalities & no stupid debt