Don't cling to external power. Needing to have something to show is letting an external power guide you. Needing to owna house and having savings is the same.

Don't cling to external power. Needing to have something to show is letting an external power guide you. Needing to owna house and having savings is the same. You're effectively expecting something of yourself that you think other people expect of you in order to consider you good. Forget that. You are already good. Don't think in terms of what you should do, what you can't do, what you must you, what you ought not to do, and open a fresh viewpoint about simply what you want. Any issue it is, it comes down to that you either want it or you don't want it. Even if your family asked you do drag on and suffer because of security, it would eventually be your own choice based on whether you want to do that crap or not. Nobody can't force you. That's all. No should, no can, no must, and other externalities but cherish your internal power instead and decide what you want.