You're advocating simply refusing to participate in the game, which may be a good choice for you personally but probably isn't applicable more broadly. As an ov

You're advocating simply refusing to participate in the game, which may be a good choice for you personally but probably isn't applicable more broadly. As an overly-extreme example, imagine if a woman responded to sexual harassment by refusing to ever get a job again. It may have solved the problem for her, but it's not good advice to give someone experiencing the same thing.