Thanks for posting this. I don't have the perspective to offer any meaningful advice, but I learned something by reading about your situation and reading the th

Thanks for posting this. I don't have the perspective to offer any meaningful advice, but I learned something by reading about your situation and reading the thoughtful responses here. That said, I agree that you should tell your wife and try to work out a work-from-home situation. I also think "totally lost" and "utterly unhappy" are exaggerations once you count your numerous blessings. :)