I won't let you police what words I use, I had no idea of the history (ESL). If there is a objective source I might reconsider. You missed my point about the n

I won't let you police what words I use, I had no idea of the history (ESL). If there is a objective source I might reconsider. You missed my point about the negativity. It makes me not wanting to do anything, that's the problem.