I'm not comparing this situation to rape; I'm comparing the mindset of the people mentioned by the parent on Facebook. People who blame the victim for the abuse

I'm not comparing this situation to rape; I'm comparing the mindset of the people mentioned by the parent on Facebook. People who blame the victim for the abuses they suffered. In this particular case, the use of force was absolutelly unnecessary. And tampering with evidence - or even turning off the recording on the phone - is a serious offense. So blaming the two for the escalation of force is ludicrous.