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Well said! Fantastic advice. I have been in the same spot a number of times, particularly early in my career. It is best to be honourable, kind, and a bigger p
by trcollinson 12y ago
Well said! Fantastic advice.
I have been in the same spot a number of times, particularly early in my career. It is best to be honourable, kind, and a bigger person. Once there was a company that I really just wanted to tell off and walk out. But after giving my two weeks notice, despite being ridiculed and mocked, I kept my cool, finished my work and documentation, and left.
Years later I was doing some hiring for my own business and a resume came across my desk, the lead ridiculer from this previous job. I gave him my standard interview, only lightly touching on the fact that at one point he had been my bosses boss. The look on his face when he first saw me was worth every fake smile I had ever given him. He completed the interview, passed, and rejected my offer. I have never felt bad about my interactions with him or that company... but I think he did.
- Domenic_S 12y ago> It is best to be honourable, kind, and a bigger person. Or, if you're not feeling particularly kind, "it's better to just keep your mouth shut". As your story demonstrates, technology is a winding road along an island that's smaller than you think; you never know when you'll cross a bridge again. Better not to burn it.