"but they don't have to say it out-loud." Actually it's better if they do, that way it wastes less of your time if you know up front that you don't have a chan

"but they don't have to say it out-loud." Actually it's better if they do, that way it wastes less of your time if you know up front that you don't have a chance because of your lack of pedigree as you say. I don't like it either, but I would rather know up front.