I see, I was making some assumptions that turned out to be incorrect. To be honest, I also find it difficult to really trust someone, because there are so many

I see, I was making some assumptions that turned out to be incorrect. To be honest, I also find it difficult to really trust someone, because there are so many things that can go wrong. I don't know any method of getting over this, I try to accept that I can be betrayed and that it's going to be painful. At the same time, I am pretty sure that I would survive and come out ok out of such a hurtful event. Not necessarily stronger, better or even the same, but ok. But there are no certainties and no methods to make oneself invulnerable. At one point we maybe have to accept our humanity, that we hurt, we bleed and we die and sometimes we can't do anything to prevent those things, so we might as well enjoy life as we can.