> "if you don't know what is normal yet, set the bar" What do you actually mean by this? I'm pretty sure I'm misreading you here. What I'm reading is "when yo

> "if you don't know what is normal yet, set the bar" What do you actually mean by this? I'm pretty sure I'm misreading you here. What I'm reading is "when you come into a new organization and you see people doing things that make you feel bad, force them to change their culture." However, arguing against that feels like arguing against a strawman because it seems obvious to me that you can't effectively change an organization as a random novice and that trying to do so is going to make people really dislike you. Even if it would happen to work, doing it requires being the sort of person thats willing to be called an asshole.