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>How are we supposed constructively discuss a problem that hasn't even been proven to exist? We can't even begin if people demolish all introspective criticism

>How are we supposed constructively discuss a problem that hasn't even been proven to exist? We can't even begin if people demolish all introspective criticism. >We disagree that insults are ever necessary. There's insults like "fuckface" and "idiot," and there's "You're nothing more than a rich white guy whose money makes him feel like his opinions shouldn't be criticized." Personally I find the second more insulting. Basic namecalling isn't really my concern here as something worth defending. Describing the factual nature of someone's motivations and political manipulation is another matter.

Karunamon 12y ago
Generally, getting into a protracted debate about someone's motivations has two effects: * The thread goes off topic * Lots of unsubstantiated and unfalsifiable accusations are made. (How would I prove I'm not a Google shill, for instance?) At the end of the day, you do not know what someone's motivations are for posting. Speculating on them is just meta noise, lowering the standard of discourse, and generally just plain harmful.
- throwawaymaroon 12y ago
  In the context of my discussing someone's motivations, that was intended to be an example where those motivations were on topic and in particular not those of another poster. For instance, discussion of the motivations of Sam Altman in creating this suggestion-guideline: is he lashing out after the negative reaction to his bubble essay? That's insulting! It's also fair game! You can argue that as a statement it's inaccurate, given what you know or believe, but I hope you understand that that kind of statement is exactly the sort of negativity this thing seems designed to prohibit.
  - Karunamon 12y ago
    Again, we disagree. By even asking that question (suffixing an accusation with a question mark does not make it less of an accusation - something I'll beat the mainstream media over the head with to my dying breath), you're accusing the other person of taking an action in bad faith: retaliatory creation of a rule in direct response to reasonable criticism. On top of that, it's unfalsifiable! How would he go about proving that the guideline update wasn't a result of anger over reception of his article? Now, say that's actually correct. Okay, so? We can't have a substantive discussion how much of a villain you think someone might be. Indeed, the motivations behind the rule are unknown beyond what he tells us, and we can only speculate. Groundless speculation does not make for very good discourse - hence why it's a bad idea to even go there. What we can talk about all day long are the implications of that rule and whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. There are plenty of arguments to be made there. Sam's motivations aside, since we don't know them, shouldn't even really enter into it.
    - throwawaymaroon 12y ago
      We are actually very close to agreement here. I agree, it is an accusatory question. Do you see how you've reduced the relevance of Sam's motivations to whether or not discussion of them is well grounded? I'm simply saying that it is anyone's right to argue that a criticism is grounded, just as it's anyone's right to contest that criticism. So it's fair for you to say "I don't think Sam's motivations are relevant" and then go on to engage discussion of what we all think Sam's motivations are and how that does or doesn't inform his actions. (Supposing, of course, that I had made a more thorough argument instead of alluding to a hypothetical starting point for one.) But it's not fair to take this guideline and say "This is unacceptable because it is criticism," which is what jseliger did. It is not the inflammatory nature of a comment that makes it acceptable or unacceptable. You're trying to set up a filter on what's acceptable that is affected by what you personally believe. And when anyone in a position of power tries to set rules on discourse, we have every right to examine what that does to the shape of discourse.

Karunamon 12y ago

Generally, getting into a protracted debate about someone's motivations has two effects: * The thread goes off topic * Lots of unsubstantiated and unfalsifiable accusations are made. (How would I prove I'm not a Google shill, for instance?) At the end of the day, you do not know what someone's motivations are for posting. Speculating on them is just meta noise, lowering the standard of discourse, and generally just plain harmful.

throwawaymaroon 12y ago
In the context of my discussing someone's motivations, that was intended to be an example where those motivations were on topic and in particular not those of another poster. For instance, discussion of the motivations of Sam Altman in creating this suggestion-guideline: is he lashing out after the negative reaction to his bubble essay? That's insulting! It's also fair game! You can argue that as a statement it's inaccurate, given what you know or believe, but I hope you understand that that kind of statement is exactly the sort of negativity this thing seems designed to prohibit.
- Karunamon 12y ago
  Again, we disagree. By even asking that question (suffixing an accusation with a question mark does not make it less of an accusation - something I'll beat the mainstream media over the head with to my dying breath), you're accusing the other person of taking an action in bad faith: retaliatory creation of a rule in direct response to reasonable criticism. On top of that, it's unfalsifiable! How would he go about proving that the guideline update wasn't a result of anger over reception of his article? Now, say that's actually correct. Okay, so? We can't have a substantive discussion how much of a villain you think someone might be. Indeed, the motivations behind the rule are unknown beyond what he tells us, and we can only speculate. Groundless speculation does not make for very good discourse - hence why it's a bad idea to even go there. What we can talk about all day long are the implications of that rule and whether it's a good thing or a bad thing. There are plenty of arguments to be made there. Sam's motivations aside, since we don't know them, shouldn't even really enter into it.
  - throwawaymaroon 12y ago
    We are actually very close to agreement here. I agree, it is an accusatory question. Do you see how you've reduced the relevance of Sam's motivations to whether or not discussion of them is well grounded? I'm simply saying that it is anyone's right to argue that a criticism is grounded, just as it's anyone's right to contest that criticism. So it's fair for you to say "I don't think Sam's motivations are relevant" and then go on to engage discussion of what we all think Sam's motivations are and how that does or doesn't inform his actions. (Supposing, of course, that I had made a more thorough argument instead of alluding to a hypothetical starting point for one.) But it's not fair to take this guideline and say "This is unacceptable because it is criticism," which is what jseliger did. It is not the inflammatory nature of a comment that makes it acceptable or unacceptable. You're trying to set up a filter on what's acceptable that is affected by what you personally believe. And when anyone in a position of power tries to set rules on discourse, we have every right to examine what that does to the shape of discourse.