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As a 25 yeah old I feel like I've completely missed this second wave of social media. - Facebook is all old people that post horribly made memes and highly ign

As a 25 yeah old I feel like I've completely missed this second wave of social media. - Facebook is all old people that post horribly made memes and highly ignorant content. - Tumblr is...what is tumblr again? - No one I know uses Snapchat...plus what would I even send to other people "hey, bro! check out this cool bowl of cereal I'm eating". - I've been with my significant other for 6 years so tinder, etc. is something I've never had to use. - I do use Twitter. - I also use instagram but only as an artistic outlet, not just random photos of daily life. I have a clear strategy for how I use my instagram account. - I browse reddit but most of the time the quality of the content is extremely low. - I use more industry specific social media like Github and Dribbble but are those even considered social media? Is HN social media?

bkurtz13 12y ago
I'm hitting 30 this year and I can definitely relate to this. I feel like I'm in social network limbo, and nothing really caters to me.
jmckib 12y ago
Just to add my own data point, I'm 26 years old: - Facebook is alive and well, even among the < 20 crowd I know. I love using it. - Several of my friends use Tumblr, but I don't get it. It looks like a mess to me; I have trouble spotting the content I'm supposed to look at. - A lot of my friends were on snapchat when it first became popular, and the content they sent me was sometimes hilarious, but mostly boring. Most people I know have lost interest. - I've never been able to get into Twitter. - I LOVE reddit. I'm one of those weird people that finds the default front page hilarious (granted, it does get old after a while), but the more time I spend on it, the more I appreciate how it allows me to connect to people I never could have met in real life. For example, I was curious what police officers thought about a recent shooting in my hometown, so I posted to a law enforcement subreddit and got perspectives from all over the world, including from officers in New Zealand where they don't regularly carry firearms. Another time I was discussing SSL on the redditdev sub, and a reddit engineer jumped in and explained why reddit doesn't force https (infrastructure capacity reasons).
- budu3 12y ago
  Care to share the link about the unarmed officers in New Zealand?
  - jmckib 12y ago
    https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_justified_to_shoot_a_naked_suspect/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_j... Here's the conversation with the NZ officer that responded: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_justified_to_shoot_a_naked_suspect/cpd63s4 https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_j...
nosuchthing 12y ago
- Facebook is infact full of old people. People are stuck using it because most people have it. - Tumblr is twitter with better photo/video/audio focus, and no 128 char limit. - Snapchat is a messaging program with a 'in the moment' or 'hey check out what's going on over here' type focus. Sorta sharing a portal into your current situation with friends. - Reddit works better if you unsubscribe from the +100,000 subscriber reddits. Signal:Noise degrades with the larger groups. Smaller niche or alternative subreddits work much better.
- Thriptic 12y ago
  > - Facebook is infact full of old people. People are stuck using it because most people have it. Yeah, and most people I know really only use it for chat, and only out of convenience. I will occasionally use FB to post pictures and content to curate my public image in case people want to search for me, and most of the people I see on news feed appear to be doing the same thing. The rest are posting stupid content which they will regret making public in 10 years. Personally, I'm still trying to find a social networking tool which provides truly transient, private communication which is securely deleted and not logged or mined by the company providing the service. Snapchat seems to come closest to this model, but the fact that it is limited to mobile and it's weak encryption prevent it from being used for actually meaningful conversations.
  - skbz 12y ago
    try diaspora. its missing a chat service, but skype and others cover that. missing a photo management service, but no possibility of security sweeps on account of its distributed nature. No adverts or spam and secure as you want, you only share with whatever aspect you like, public, private or with groups.. Simple
    - retrojoe 12y ago
      Diaspora, much as I like the concept, is full of woo and crazy.
- bigredtech 12y ago
losteric 12y ago
All social networks have value, if 1.) they enable forms of communication you find valuable, and 2.) you can find the people that broadcast relevant information. Personally I find niche social sites to be far more valuable than general sites. HN is social news for technical audiences. Reddit is social news curation across different demographics. GH is social software development. Facebook is Linkdin for my personal life. Tumblr is lazy blogging. Very noisy. Snapchat is faster picture texting. For many people this really is just cereal-bowl-boring. Instagram is photography made easy. I'd probably use this if I had more friends into real photography, but as-is it's just more cereal bowl pics. There's always noise but niche networks encourages higher quality because people care about the niche. Social noise is much less acceptable there. General sites will always just be "random shit no one wants to hear about in person".
njharman 12y ago
> "hey, bro! check out this cool bowl of cereal I'm eating" People who use snap chat have more interesting lives than you.
- ryanSrich 12y ago
  Well I think I do cool and exciting things aside from eating cereal. I just have no urge to share that with people I'm not with. I personally can't see how anyone would care about the specifics of what I'm doing so much that I need to send them an instant photograph or video. I mean maybe close family and friends but I wouldn't use an app like snapchat for that. I'd just text it. To me I just don't see the point of snapchat, but that's fine. It's quite obvious that im not their intended audience.

bkurtz13 12y ago

I'm hitting 30 this year and I can definitely relate to this. I feel like I'm in social network limbo, and nothing really caters to me.

jmckib 12y ago

Just to add my own data point, I'm 26 years old: - Facebook is alive and well, even among the < 20 crowd I know. I love using it. - Several of my friends use Tumblr, but I don't get it. It looks like a mess to me; I have trouble spotting the content I'm supposed to look at. - A lot of my friends were on snapchat when it first became popular, and the content they sent me was sometimes hilarious, but mostly boring. Most people I know have lost interest. - I've never been able to get into Twitter. - I LOVE reddit. I'm one of those weird people that finds the default front page hilarious (granted, it does get old after a while), but the more time I spend on it, the more I appreciate how it allows me to connect to people I never could have met in real life. For example, I was curious what police officers thought about a recent shooting in my hometown, so I posted to a law enforcement subreddit and got perspectives from all over the world, including from officers in New Zealand where they don't regularly carry firearms. Another time I was discussing SSL on the redditdev sub, and a reddit engineer jumped in and explained why reddit doesn't force https (infrastructure capacity reasons).

budu3 12y ago
Care to share the link about the unarmed officers in New Zealand?
- jmckib 12y ago
  https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_justified_to_shoot_a_naked_suspect/ https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_j... Here's the conversation with the NZ officer that responded: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_justified_to_shoot_a_naked_suspect/cpd63s4 https://www.reddit.com/r/AskLEO/comments/2ys2cb/is_it_ever_j...

nosuchthing 12y ago

- Facebook is infact full of old people. People are stuck using it because most people have it. - Tumblr is twitter with better photo/video/audio focus, and no 128 char limit. - Snapchat is a messaging program with a 'in the moment' or 'hey check out what's going on over here' type focus. Sorta sharing a portal into your current situation with friends. - Reddit works better if you unsubscribe from the +100,000 subscriber reddits. Signal:Noise degrades with the larger groups. Smaller niche or alternative subreddits work much better.

Thriptic 12y ago
> - Facebook is infact full of old people. People are stuck using it because most people have it. Yeah, and most people I know really only use it for chat, and only out of convenience. I will occasionally use FB to post pictures and content to curate my public image in case people want to search for me, and most of the people I see on news feed appear to be doing the same thing. The rest are posting stupid content which they will regret making public in 10 years. Personally, I'm still trying to find a social networking tool which provides truly transient, private communication which is securely deleted and not logged or mined by the company providing the service. Snapchat seems to come closest to this model, but the fact that it is limited to mobile and it's weak encryption prevent it from being used for actually meaningful conversations.
- skbz 12y ago
  try diaspora. its missing a chat service, but skype and others cover that. missing a photo management service, but no possibility of security sweeps on account of its distributed nature. No adverts or spam and secure as you want, you only share with whatever aspect you like, public, private or with groups.. Simple
  - retrojoe 12y ago
    Diaspora, much as I like the concept, is full of woo and crazy.
bigredtech 12y ago

losteric 12y ago

All social networks have value, if 1.) they enable forms of communication you find valuable, and 2.) you can find the people that broadcast relevant information. Personally I find niche social sites to be far more valuable than general sites. HN is social news for technical audiences. Reddit is social news curation across different demographics. GH is social software development. Facebook is Linkdin for my personal life. Tumblr is lazy blogging. Very noisy. Snapchat is faster picture texting. For many people this really is just cereal-bowl-boring. Instagram is photography made easy. I'd probably use this if I had more friends into real photography, but as-is it's just more cereal bowl pics. There's always noise but niche networks encourages higher quality because people care about the niche. Social noise is much less acceptable there. General sites will always just be "random shit no one wants to hear about in person".

njharman 12y ago

> "hey, bro! check out this cool bowl of cereal I'm eating" People who use snap chat have more interesting lives than you.

ryanSrich 12y ago
Well I think I do cool and exciting things aside from eating cereal. I just have no urge to share that with people I'm not with. I personally can't see how anyone would care about the specifics of what I'm doing so much that I need to send them an instant photograph or video. I mean maybe close family and friends but I wouldn't use an app like snapchat for that. I'd just text it. To me I just don't see the point of snapchat, but that's fine. It's quite obvious that im not their intended audience.