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One thing about trauma is that different people are affected differently. When my wife was preparing to deploy for Iraq, the Army training included a simulation
by dalke 12y ago
One thing about trauma is that different people are affected differently. When my wife was preparing to deploy for Iraq, the Army training included a simulation of an overturned vehicle. Beforehand people were asked if they had been in an overturned car accident before. This can be traumatizing to some, and could be excused if wanted. She had been in such an accident, but wasn't traumatized by it and with through the simulator.
So just because the author of this piece can deal with trauma doesn't mean that all people could deal with trauma the same way.
But I don't see the direct connection from microagressions as being a form of trauma. Eg, from http://www.extension.umn.edu/family/cyfc/our-programs/ereview/docs/cmhereviewOct10.pdf http://www.extension.umn.edu/family/cyfc/our-programs/erevie... :
> Wing Sue and his colleagues identify three types of microaggressions
> 1. A microinsult is characterized by communications that convey
rudeness and insensitivity and demean a person’s racial heritage or
identity (for example, eye rolling during a discussion about an
individual’s racial identity).
> 2. Microinvalidations are communications that exclude, negate or
nullify the psychological thoughts, feelings, or experiential reality
of a person of color. An example is a white person stating to a
person of color that they “don’t see color”, which denies that
person’s racial and ethnic experiences. Another example is a
non-Native person asking someone of AIAN culture whether or not he or
she is a “real Indian”. This demands an explanation that few others
are required to deliver.
> 3. A microassault is an explicit racial derogation characterized
primarily by a verbal or nonverbal attack meant to hurt the intended
victim. This can happen through name-calling, avoidant behavior, or
purposeful discriminatory actions. Microassaults against AIAN people
also appear in the form of advertisements that depict white models in
Native clothing, associations between AIAN people and aggressive
sports teams, and messages that connect AIAN people with alcohol
use. Microassaults are typically more conscious and deliberate than
other forms of microaggression.
Even though that quote is from a document that connects microagressions to historical trauma, it says that microagressions are a form of violence, not trauma.
Giving someone a papercut is a form of violence. Do it enough times and it can lead to trauma, but a papercut isn't in and of itself particularly traumatic.
To give an example from an entirely different context - a book from 1970 concerning Swedish culture, especially as it applies to Americans of Swedish descent:
> Being taught from childhood to observe the rule of modesty, yes, self-effacement, a Swede is deprived of initiative and confidence from the start. And this lack has made its mark on most Swedes of earlier generations. It can be traced to Americans of Swedish descent up to this time. They will know the phrase, det är ingenting ["that is nothing"], which reflects the concept that praise must be minimized. However lovely she thinks her dress is, a Swedish woman of an earlier vintage would invariably reply to a compliment: "Åh, den här gamla trasan!" (Oh, this old rag), or something equally disparaging.
Being told once that an idea of yours is nothing? Survivable. Being told that from a baby? That changes your life. And not really in a good way.
I get the feeling that the feelings behind this essay are more akin to Bob Newhart's character in https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-Tej0297wk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n-Tej0297wk . Or quoting
GFK_of_xmaspast, "what an asshole."
- mrxd 12y ago> So just because the author of this piece can deal with trauma doesn't mean that all people could deal with trauma the same way. There are standard treatments for post-traumatic stress disorder, and all of them are focused on strengthening the individual's ability to cope with symptoms. Altering their environment to avoid the occurrence of symptoms is not a valid treatment. In fact, its considered a symptom of PTSD (and several other mental health issues) which has its own specific treatment called exposure therapy. This treatment exposes the patient to what triggers anxiety and stress in a controlled fashion. You, and many trauma activists, take a different view of the mental health profession on the nature and treatment of trauma that seems to reflect political and social goals of the movement rather than the well-being of the victims. As much as I agree with those goals, I have ethical problems with exploiting victims of trauma for political ends.
- dalke 12y agoLet's suppose everyone at work calls me a peon. "Hey peon, get this for me." "Hey peon, make me some coffee." "Hey peon, sudo make me a sandwich." Hey peon, get rid of these compiler warnings." People replace my door tag with "Peon Dalke". People sneak in and change my screen saver to "Peon's machine". And so on. Assume also that I don't particularly like being called peon, but the entire office thinks it's funny, and funny when I protest. Should I get treatment to be able to better handle being called peon? Or should I change the workplace culture, perhaps by getting the owner involved, so people stop calling me names? Or should I quit? (The only way it could be POST-traumatic is for the so-called trauma to stop.) It sounds like you're suggesting that it's due to my inability to handle name-calling, and I should seek mental health treatment to accept being called names all the time. If so, you have an odd view on life. Otherwise, I don't know what you're talking about.
- mrxd 12y agoYou're the one who insists on framing injustice as ultimately a mental health issue. The logical outcome of that is mental health solutions, not social and political change. The scenario you described is called injustice. If you go to the owner and say "This needs to stop because it stresses me out", you've betrayed the cause. You've traded justice for mental health as the issue we should care about.