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>We really are creatures of habit. We're also creatures of cooperation. Nothing big happens in the world unless 3 or more people agree to do it - simply, noth
by fit2rule 12y ago
>We really are creatures of habit.
We're also creatures of cooperation. Nothing big happens in the world unless 3 or more people agree to do it - simply, nothing. All groups require a degree of cooperation/coordination, and fundamental agreement in order to function - otherwise you just have a fight on your hands, or a disorganized mess, or some sort of dilettante activity where nothing ever gets done.
So we've evolved, socially, to agree to do things in order to get things done. Sharing the same schedule and having a common basis of work is fundamental to human activities; while you may enjoy the luxury of coming late to the office, others may enjoy the luxury of leaving early from the office to get home when there are still daylight hours.
Alas, being different than the others means you're imposing a difficulty on them that they may not feel they deserve, or in any way think is a viable way of operating. This tension and frustration you're feeling - it goes both ways. Having a shared, agreed-upon schedule, reduces that tension - whether you like it or not.
Not saying that you should change just because others need/want you to, but in fact the disagreement over how best to operate is a cause of unnecessary tension. If you can't get it together, in spite of whether you're getting the work done or not, as your manager I'd be inclined to wonder why you think you have the right to impose such tension on your workplace. Maybe you're worth it because your work is special - maybe not. I guess because you've persisted in the position, you must have value for which the hassle is worth it. Not everyone has that luxury, alas ..
- makmanalp 12y agoI would be inclined to agree with you, but this just isn't true in my case and many other cases - usually the people who care the most are the ones I have to work with the least. When I have a meeting, I suck it up and come in on time. But otherwise, there really is no reason I even have to be physically in the office. There are benefits to it, and I like being in the office because it lets me interact with people in ways that I think makes me better at my job, but really I could be on the other side of the world and it'd be fine. We still ape the rituals of our industrial revolution predecessors simply because no one tried anything else.
- fit2rule 12y ago>usually the people who care the most are the ones I have to work with the least. Its not necessarily rational - or else if it were, we wouldn't have to deal with this at all, and everyone could just work whenever they felt like it. This is an ingrained, subconscious agreement that we all work as hard as we can and nobody slacks off - alas, having schedule conflicts are an easy way to say "I don't think you work as hard as you should" .. and the corollary: "I don't think I should have to work as hard as you think I should" ..