Oh, definitely. Nationalism is a problem everywhere. I think it stems from sheltered lives and closed-mindedness. The best thing we can do is to tear down the u

Oh, definitely. Nationalism is a problem everywhere. I think it stems from sheltered lives and closed-mindedness. The best thing we can do is to tear down the unbelievably fierce restrictions on immigration that exist in literally every first world country. You shouldn't have to be extremely lucky (land an ESL teacher spot), rich (degree/investor), or marry someone to live abroad in the 21st century. We should have open borders. I don't mind your post and wasn't trying to be a contrarian. Just that I really do worry about this issue there. But being honest, even after having studied Japan since high school, I still barely understand some parts of their culture. For one example, 遠慮 (enryo) is a concept I'll never comprehend. They say it shows humility to decline at first; but to me, it feels like it turns the tables and makes the gift-giver feel like the one that has to forcefully impose. It would make me feel bad to beg someone to accept my gift. I'm willing to go pretty far to "act like the Romans", but this is one thing I couldn't bring myself to do.