Bingo--author mentioned sexuality, which is something that is specifically best left to fieldwork instead of reading Wikipedia and books...and yes, I'm speaking

Bingo--author mentioned sexuality, which is something that is specifically best left to fieldwork instead of reading Wikipedia and books...and yes, I'm speaking from experience. Talking to people at parties and raves and orgies and meetups is going to give you much better experience and understanding. And as for the non-sexual relationship stuff, I'll attempt no general claims at this time.