I generally wouldn't suggest learning about sexuality first-hand from ones relatives. :| So, once upon a time I too was very much concerned about making one to

I generally wouldn't suggest learning about sexuality first-hand from ones relatives. :| So, once upon a time I too was very much concerned about making one too many mistakes--part of learning is figuring out that those mistakes are a)somewhat expected of you as a maturing sexual entity and b)harmless. As long as you treat other people with respect and try to be a good person, your romantic screwups (and you will have romantic screwups) will just be slightly stressful learning experiences. One thing that I've noticed is that it seems modern intellectual and enlightened internet culture is the worst possible place to discover and explore your own sexuality. Abnormal urges are treated as standard, and normal urges are treated as discriminatory, barbaric, unseemly, or criminal. Go interact with normal people at bars or coffee shops or social events and see what you can see--it is going to be very hard to find positive role models online in the places you'd normally expect wise elders. Hell, you're honestly better off looking through 4chan than you are any of the conservative, progressive, or technical sites here.