Most of nature has mating rituals to signify fitness of a mate, in almost infinite variety. A fraction of homo sapiens was convinced into an irrational additio

Most of nature has mating rituals to signify fitness of a mate, in almost infinite variety. A fraction of homo sapiens was convinced into an irrational addition to that ritual by being unaware of the psychological manipulation targeted directly at that mating ritual, and the omnipresent self-esteem trigger. It's not coercion, it's an instinct corrupted by greed.