My wife and I live in Oakland on ~$160k a year, own a home, and live a relatively lavish lifestyle. So yeah, I'm in a "worse" situation then I outlines and in

My wife and I live in Oakland on ~$160k a year, own a home, and live a relatively lavish lifestyle. So yeah, I'm in a "worse" situation then I outlines and in reality, in the upper class of quality of life.