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So I solved the problem, I think. The others steered the conversation in another direction. And when the topic did come up I found something to praise about the
by yxfdispose 12y ago
So I solved the problem, I think. The others steered the conversation in another direction. And when the topic did come up I found something to praise about the victim of the gossip (a small thing, since we don't work together), but I deliberately and obviously exaggerated its importance, to signal that I didn't like the one-sided nature of things. That, and the fact that I pointedly ignored him when he started gossiping, seems to have worked.
Thanks to all who responded.