Having your stupid choices being pointed out to you is a good thing. Having this done in an encouraging, positive fashion which will keep you contributing in t

Having your stupid choices being pointed out to you is a good thing. Having this done in an encouraging, positive fashion which will keep you contributing in the future is a good thing. Having this done in a way which is going to make you feel bad, feel bad about the project, and write off the leadership as a bunch of a-holes is a bad thing, because then you'll stop contributing.