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As a low-income student who attended an Ivy League university, I'd like to mention one more reason about why low-income students don't apply to elite schools.
by littletimmy 12y ago
As a low-income student who attended an Ivy League university, I'd like to mention one more reason about why low-income students don't apply to elite schools.
They just don't fit in.
I was the best student in my shitty high school and so I applied and happened to get into an Ivy League school. The environment there was so incredibly different I just didn't fit in. Super-preppy good looking kids (they all are thin and tend to look good) who are invariably very well-spoken, totally expectant of all the resources lavished upon them, and just know how to talk to professors and interview for jobs and so on.
I was of a different breed. Ugly, fat, not well-spoken, no idea how to talk to professors, no gutso to challenge a nobel prize winner on his opinion. I was also somewhat shocked with the amount of resources provided to students. For example, for unpaid summer internships my college just gave out $5000 in living expenses so undergrads could do any unpaid internship they wanted. That's about a quarter of what my family earns in a year. Not complaining, of course, but I hope you see how alien this environment was for me. Same was the case with interviews, I didn't have a suit and I had no idea how to bond with an interviewer over our shared love for some exotic sport like skiing.
I just didn't fit in. If I were to do it over again I would pick my Ivy League school again, but I recognize that it is an alien environment. I can totally see why another low-income student would be scared by all this and just not apply.
PS: If I went to a school like MIT maybe my experience would be different. I went to one of YPD, which are traditionally more preppy.
- SpaceManNabs 12y agoIt is a similar thing here at Princeton. It wasn't until recently that low income issues were discussed in the USG and groups like the Hidden Minority Council got attention. Even then, there is strong backlash.
- peri 12y agoThis matches my experience at Columbia completely. I felt completely out of place and estranged outside of a few geek-interest clubs. I'm lucky I found those — coming from public school, even a really good one, the culture shock was overwhelming.
- eli_gottlieb 12y ago>For example, for unpaid summer internships my college just gave out $5000 in living expenses so undergrads could do any unpaid internship they wanted. What... the... hell? Nobody gave us anything like that at a state school.
- littletimmy 12y agoYeah, it was the most surprising thing for me as well. Want to do unpaid internship? Here's $5000. Want to start a project in the third world? Here's another $5000. Want to do undergraduate research? Here's $1000 per term to help you out. Study abroad? Here's a plane ticket. The amount of privilege there is in going to an Ivy League school is incredible.