I both love this future because I think it will save lives and be awesome, and hate it because I am sure, totally sure, that we won't get a physical disconnect

I both love this future because I think it will save lives and be awesome, and hate it because I am sure, totally sure, that we won't get a physical disconnect button to turn the car off, open the doors and get out if the car is malfunctioning, on fire, or taken over by hackers or the 'Car Safety Administration and Prevention' department. I think it's interesting there's so much billionaire scare-talk about skynet and the risk of AI and none of these companies mention meatspace-level security with their cool autonomous AI's they're building. I genuinely wonder why that is; is it just preferring control (over the robot product by the company)?