I played this game a bit in the late 90s and early 2000s, and ... it's just so tiring. And largely pointless. So many good points in the comments here, they'v

I played this game a bit in the late 90s and early 2000s, and ... it's just so tiring. And largely pointless. So many good points in the comments here, they've triggered so many more thoughts. I talk about this topic on and off at user groups now and then - informally, not full on presentations, but usually get thanked by someone afterwards. There are so many tool choices that it's really really hard to even trust anyone's 'review' of the tool landscape, even in a particular vertical niche. And so many people that are writing the tools (and promoting them) are, in fact, primarily tool authors, not necessarily having to face the sort of 'in the trenches' problems that most devs have to deal with (both technical and political). Denouncing tech XYZ because you're using ABC is often, I've found, done because the person wants some external feedback that they made the 'right' decision. Public (on forums or f2f) signaling of the choice you made, with some 'reason', lets people support you and your choice. There's certainly more to it, but that seems to be the root motivation I've seen in a lot of people in my locality who behave this way in public. I've told the story about being at a ColdFusion developer conference, helping set up chairs the night before. One of the speakers starting ragging on PHP. Of all the people to be picking on an 'easy target' like PHP, I would have thought CF devs would be more sensitive to that sort of trash talk, likely having been on the receiving end more often than not. Not this guy - we were all treated to a 5 minute rant about how shitty PHP was is, PHP devs need training wheels to use the internet, etc. Unbelievable, but right there in front of me. When I did it, I was trying to make sure my reasons for my choices were 'correct' (tech X was faster to write, faster to execute, cheaper, etc). After a few more years around the block, it became apparent that there are generally so many more factors at play that are not always readily apparent, and often, the best choice is the one someone already knows, because estimating learning time for 'newtechX' is essentially impossible (doubly so for stuff that's not even out of beta yet). Argh... maybe we can get Rachel to come speak at one of our local dev groups - this message needs to be driven home more, I think.