>I want children, eventually, but I'm not ready yet. Totally off-topic, but there will possibly never be a time when you feel 'ready', or by the time you event

>I want children, eventually, but I'm not ready yet. Totally off-topic, but there will possibly never be a time when you feel 'ready', or by the time you eventually feel ready it may well be too late. 10 years married if you married at 20 still leaves you with a few years of time. 10 years married if you married at 30 leaves you (and more specifically your wife) with far less time and a far higher likelihood of complications. Anyway, I know nothing about your situation and I don't in any way mean to butt in on something that is a highly personal decision, but if you haven't done so already, it's very worth having a good think about what 'ready' actually means for both you and your wife.