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It is not a lack of opportunity, it is a lack of dual parent opportunities that can place the proper amount of time into their children to develop them for scho
by Agustus 12y ago
It is not a lack of opportunity, it is a lack of dual parent opportunities that can place the proper amount of time into their children to develop them for school and career opportunities.
Taking a step back from race, let us focus it on one parent families. While it is possible to successfully raise a child in a one-parent family it is a difficult variable; there is a reason why the news includes single parent as a hardship in their tales. Locating child-care, staying home with a kid who is sick and cannot attend day care, one income wages, and a host of other variables create issues for allocating the one-on-one time necessary to develop the ABC's, numbers, and mannerisms that a two-parent family is capable of; be they gay, straight, black, white, asiatic, hispanic.
The question is how can we, as a society, encourage two-parent families, so we can get people a good start to be successful?
On the website, there are societal factors within Japan that are creating suicidal individuals without any hope for the future:
* Salary careers are no longer as optimum as before, Mr. Tadayuki is taking the same action as those of second born individuals from centuries past, seeking opportunities in other lands. Staying in Japan only creates suicidal thoughts.
* Hostess girls fall into the same trap as strippers, there is so much up front monies to be made that pursuing a career seems dubious for those who are not able to see long term benefits or have requirements that necessitate large up-front monies (drug habits). Getting them off of these careers would require a government or privately run stripper wean off program.
- greggman 12y agoI think maybe you're viewing hostesses from a decidedly western pov. I have lots of hostess friends or x-hostess friends. All but one of them saw it as a pleasant experience. They talked a lot and got paid very very well. They didn't have to put out and some of them gained amazing social skills that have helped them in their current careers. All of them (except 1) go back from time to time for extra cash. My point being its not seedy to Japanese culture where as to westerners it's often associated with strippers. It's not or at least a large percentage of it is not
- Agustus 12y agoThanks for your insight Mr. GreggMan, I figured the hostess title meant that they were not doing seedy thing. I wanted to point out the addictive property of going to work for a high pay job that was only good for a period of time and having the ability to get away from that job. I wondered about the seediness level and your comment helped explain it better.