What lack of opportunity are you speaking of? I'm not trying to say there is/isn't. But I'm curious how you would phrase/state it? I find it's often much easie

What lack of opportunity are you speaking of? I'm not trying to say there is/isn't. But I'm curious how you would phrase/state it? I find it's often much easier to discuss something when it's phrased as a proposition, rather than a blanket assumption that we must either accept, or argue with the person stating it.