also do not discount the idea that many refuse such of friends and acquaintances because they do not wish to feel indebted to them. anonymous donors are fine.

also do not discount the idea that many refuse such of friends and acquaintances because they do not wish to feel indebted to them. anonymous donors are fine. seeing the person who helped save your life each day may not, you may feel incorrectly they think they have a right to question you when they don't feel the same