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Just to clarify: in saying that as a cohort, young men are not good at acknowledging their own difficulties or understanding other people's we don't mean that t
by DanieleProcida 12y ago
Just to clarify: in saying that as a cohort, young men are not good at acknowledging their own difficulties or understanding other people's we don't mean that they don't care, or wouldn't care if they understood.
It's certainly not blaming them, or making a moral judgement. It's absolutely nothing to do with being "emotionally stunted". The gap is one of understanding, and it's a cultural one.
Since young men make up most of this industry, this tends to make the industry as a whole bad at understanding and dealing with these kinds of problems, which in turn makes it harder for the individuals in it to understand better.
- mcantelon 12y agoMen don't have a monopoly on "burnout, exhaustion, depression" so the negative blanket statements about men could be left out entirely.
- DanieleProcida 12y agoThe first part of that is true, but they are the ones who are least likely to seek help, and the most likely to be at DjangoCon. This is why we are addressing young men in particular.
- parennoob 12y agoI see what you mean; you were addressing the major target demographic. I think the part about "not good at acknowledging their own problems, or understanding other people" could have possibly been phrased better (your "least likely to seek help" makes far more sense). However, given this broader background, I see that the intentions of this counseling are good. Thanks a lot for making it happen!
- Dewie 12y agoI think we have to forgive Daniele for making a bull-headed statement, since he is probably not that socially sensitive by virtue of being a man.