Could be the other way around, that people that become leaders lose their empathy? I've read that this is a real effect. Either way makes sense to me, empathy

Could be the other way around, that people that become leaders lose their empathy? I've read that this is a real effect. Either way makes sense to me, empathy is a horrible trait in a leader. I know that seems like a horrible thing to say, but I am a very empathetic person and would make a horrible leader. Wanting to please everyone leads to stress and indecision.