> Read what others have said in this thread, think critically about their views as well as your own and see where you end up. thanks for the honest reply. you

> Read what others have said in this thread, think critically about their views as well as your own and see where you end up. thanks for the honest reply. you offer a reasonable assessment, as much as i disagree that victim blaming is universally wrong. this man is responsible for his own actions, and that the bulk of the accusations here are serious regardless as to that behaviour. however, i think its damaging to the cause of preventing sexual harassment in the workplace if women do not consistently treat all men as equal in this regard - regardless as to how attractive they find them at the time (and e.g. coupled with how married they are)... it seems to me that it makes it impossible to set objective standards.