I'm not questioning your anecdata, but (to offer some of my own) I have never experienced this and none of the people I work with or socialise with have ever br

I'm not questioning your anecdata, but (to offer some of my own) I have never experienced this and none of the people I work with or socialise with have ever brought it up. I only hear people on the internet talking about it as if it's true of the service as a whole. It definitely isn't.