>And I'm not being smug here with the above. That's what threw me off, so sorry with the confusion. I can also state that it doesn't fit my personal experience

>And I'm not being smug here with the above. That's what threw me off, so sorry with the confusion. I can also state that it doesn't fit my personal experiences even in a figurative sense, but that's a comparison that I don't think is easy to make in a few comments back and forth online.