Your downvotes are probably because of the blaming-the-victim section: >>in the case of this guy misbehaving it is in a very large part enabled by women in a c

Your downvotes are probably because of the blaming-the-victim section: >>in the case of this guy misbehaving it is in a very large part enabled by women in a combination of not standing up for themselves and sleeping with a jerk. you can't just ask everyone around you to stop this stuff if you are actively encouraging it yourself. it has to work both ways.