> She seems to have understood it to mean it is unacceptable that you should feel uncomfortable and your feelings are unacceptable. No she hasn't, she's just..

> She seems to have understood it to mean it is unacceptable that you should feel uncomfortable and your feelings are unacceptable. No she hasn't, she's just... I don't have any polite description of what she seems to be doing. "I think it's saying it's unacceptable if s/o makes you feel that way, but the 1st graf def sets up some apologist precedents" "I know what they actually mean, it's just a funny Freudian insight that no-one caught the bad grammar" "I'm pretty sure you read that very wrong" "I'm ok with this".