> * Two people get drunk and hook up after a party... afterwards the woman cries rape. (there's a difference between rape and a bad decision) Did I miss somewh

> * Two people get drunk and hook up after a party... afterwards the woman cries rape. (there's a difference between rape and a bad decision) Did I miss somewhere in the post where the regret of a (mutually) drunken one-night-stand was equated with rape? Or are you bringing this up because you believe such occurrences happen often? If it's the latter, would you mind sharing sources? I've heard people suggest that these things happen (where the "victim" was either embarrassed of sleeping with the person, or perhaps was ashamed due to their morals), but I have never seen a man or women ever claim that they were raped when it was in reality just "a bad decision" ... which makes me wonder if the mentioning of the scenario you give is just a common device for distracting from the topic of rape.