"submitting" should not be confused with "took effort but convinced them to have sex with you" Saying no and resisting is different than convincing someone to

"submitting" should not be confused with "took effort but convinced them to have sex with you" Saying no and resisting is different than convincing someone to have sex with you. The previous is rape. The latter can often just be part of courtship. At the end of the day, it should be rather obvious if you're raping someone or not.