> Women working for big corps: HR is NOT ON YOUR SIDE. Learn and know this fact. This is true regardless of gender identity. HR is employed by the company to h

> Women working for big corps: HR is NOT ON YOUR SIDE. Learn and know this fact. This is true regardless of gender identity. HR is employed by the company to help them detect employees who might go on to cause legal trouble for the company. If they regularly sided with employees over the company then there would be no point in the company spending so much money on them. TL;DR: HR is not your friend, they are risk mitigation.