It's pretty clear that there are things that are are okay until I'm told to stop, and there are other things that are inappropriate until I'm told it's okay. A

It's pretty clear that there are things that are are okay until I'm told to stop, and there are other things that are inappropriate until I'm told it's okay. A lot of us consider telling a coworker "It's taking all of my self control not to grab your ass right now" falls under the latter category.