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It's not vital, it's irrelevant entirely. She is not to blame for failing to stop his pattern of actions. If you don't understand this you can websearch "Victim
by detcader 12y ago
It's not vital, it's irrelevant entirely. She is not to blame for failing to stop his pattern of actions. If you don't understand this you can websearch "Victim-blaming" and you will find a lot of material to read.
- droopyEyelids 12y agoIt is vital. If you don't tell someone that you don't like something, they can't realistically be expected to know. Someone has to receive that message before the behavior can be interpreted as shitty flirting or harassment.
- lkbm 12y agoIt's pretty clear that there are things that are are okay until I'm told to stop, and there are other things that are inappropriate until I'm told it's okay. A lot of us consider telling a coworker "It's taking all of my self control not to grab your ass right now" falls under the latter category.