Have you got any links to these surveys other than your friend? I would be really interested to know the incidence. The actual number is ludicrously hard to pin

Have you got any links to these surveys other than your friend? I would be really interested to know the incidence. The actual number is ludicrously hard to pin down: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_sexual_orientation#Modern_survey_results http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_sexual_orientat... The biggest problem is that nobody really agrees with what a "gay man" is for the purposes of counting them anyway. Does just one homosexual experience count? What about if (as this survey suggests is common) you have a lifetime of clear homosexual thoughts but no opportunity to act on them? What if you're any of the infinite variations of bisexuality between completely homosexual and completely heterosexual? I tend to work with 4%-8%, depending on definition, but I'll be the first to admit it's a total shot in the dark.